Dismantled
During this stage, a woman finds herself allowing emotional trauma, physical abuse, false information, or shame to disconnect her from her sexuality. She tries not to think about it and even tries her best to avoid it. There is so much pain and hurt within that needs to be processed, accepted, forgiven, nurtured, and empowered. This stage is challenging to leave because it seems permanent and a genuine part of who she identifies as.
Suppressed
During this stage, a woman finds herself feeling disconnected to her body and even her yoni. She suppresses her sexual desires and finds herself appeasing to man’s sexual pleasure before her own. She is emotionally, spiritually, or sexually closed off in relationships and disconnected from her pleasure. This stage leads to many medical issues and sickness due to the unreleased energy trapped within the body.
Exploration
During this stage, a woman finds herself experimenting sexually with various people, various kinks, and various things to bring sexual fulfillment. She bounces from soul to soul, hoping to find the most incredible feeling with the most enjoyable person. She uses her high sex drive and good sex to bring temporary relief to her ego desires. At this stage, there is no loyalty, no commitment, no feelings involved, and her guard is entirely up. She is only concerned with her pleasure and doesn’t have time for catching feelings or falling in love. This stage is fun, liberating, and even addicting. Many stay within this stage until they get tired of feeling empty or lonely.
Conditional
During this stage, a woman finds herself in a relationship for security, money, popularity, or any other reason outside of unconditional love and trust. She has a deep need to be taken care of financially to feel loved. She requires her partner to validate her worth through constant attention, validation, and gifts. If circumstances change, she is willing to move on to the next best thing that best benefits her lifestyle and happiness. This lavish stage brings material joy but does not hit on a soul level. It eventually leads to resentment and inner discomfort.
1-Dimensional
During this stage, a woman finds herself showcasing her body, intimate moments, and sexuality to a crowd for validation of beauty, to gain inner confidence, or rise in popularity. She openly or subconsciously uses her sexuality for fame, attention, money, or gifts. It is a phase where you lead with flesh to prove your worth. She may find herself constantly in toxic situationships that cause her to dislike men, making it hard to trust and be open. This stage can be fun. Many women get stuck here enjoying their thousands of social media friends and satisfying attention from various sources.
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